Negative scenarios are already hard enough to deal with without at added problem of all those included losing their cool. An ideal way to deal with any difficult situation would be to remain calm and justify the circumstance prior to attempting sort of option, nevertheless many time this is simpler said than done.
The following are some pointers on how to manage a difficult situation calmly, so that ideal results are accomplished quickly and adequately:
Remain tranquil-- this is always a prerequisite in any situation particularly when other involved are already upset. Contributing to the adverse circumstance will not benefit and will almost certainly elevate the issue further. Letting the storm pass or enable the other celebration to vent will be a much better alternative as many individuals are exhausted and ready to listen only after they are spent physically and psychologically.
Enabling others to do the talking-- this is also one means of getting a handle on a difficult situation. When everybody wants to have a say and is doing this at the same time, voice levels are going to be raised and this is typically perceived as threatening, which further enhances an already bad scenario. Besides this, no one actually gets heard, thus permitting others a chance to talk, and genuinely listening with rapt attention, will assist all included to pay attention to the view being aired then proper actions can be taken.
Putting a stop to a verbally violent scenario quickly-- often firmly and calmly expressing the need for all celebrations to calm down, so that an option can be reached rapidly and to everyone's contentment is the only method to get anyone's attention. Stopping the spoken attack in a firm method will definitely get the attention of all celebrations and stop the scenario from turning unsightly.